As a single Asian gay guy living in NZ, I can still feel the pressure from family. As having a kid is more important than anything else in the culture. So I think I'm going to have a kid without lying an Innocent girl.
There are two options, one is go for surrogacy, the other is co-parent. Ideally, I prefer to find an egg donor my own instead of using egg of unknown for surrogacy. But with many laws limit, I found it's a little bit hard for surrogacy. While for co-parents, I don't want get too much interference from the other parent.
So any advice or any thought? Thanks