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 Son bullied because dad is gay
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  13th July 2006
My 16-year old son is straight, and because I am gay he is getting bullied at a school with a homophobic headmaster which is being lazy about it.


 How do I relax my arse?
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  8th June 2006
Martin is having difficulty relaxing during anal sex, and is relying on "a few puffs on a joint " to let things happen pleasurably.


 "Is my fiance gay?"
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  26th May 2006
Amanda has discovered erotic pictures of teenage guys in her fiance's computer... does he have gay tendencies or is Amanda "just freaking out?"


 How could my otherwise intelligent friend get HIV?
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  10th March 2006
Byron can't understand how an otherwise intelligent gay friend, in this day and age, could recently get HIV. He's losing respect for the guy.


 Trapped in an abusive relationship
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  6th March 2006
Karen's young son is trapped in a violent, abusive relationship, alienated from his family. What can she do?


 Alternative wording to "Civil Union"?
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  28th February 2006
Julie is looking for a warmer, less bureaucratic sounding alternative to "Civil Union Ceremony."


 Hairy bod problem
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  24th December 2005
The first ever male love of Aaron's life has body hair and he finds it "rather foreign and off-putting."


 Praying for straightness
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  10th December 2005
Luke's father wants him to attend a prayer group to turn him away from his attraction to men... Luke feels he should give it a try, for the sake of his family.


 A lover obsessed with sex with other men
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  30th November 2005
Michael is in emotional and mental turmoil because the love of his life is obsessed with random sexual encounters with other men.


 Gay's the (insulting) word
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  6th June 2005
Since when did "gay" become a bad word? Kids are using it all the time and now adults are using it too, notes Kerry.


 Dealing with "faggot" put-downs
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  30th May 2005
Gareth often finds himself in homophobic environments where every second insult is 'faggot' or 'homo' which makes him really uncomfortable.


 Sports and gays - like oil and water?
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  22nd May 2005
Martin enjoys going to the rugby but his gay friends make him feel like some sort of leper. Are gays and sport really poles apart?


 "I'm confused and unsure about having kids"
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  20th April 2005
Joan wants to have children but many aspects of her life seem to point to this being a bad or difficult choice. What should she do?


 "His wife turned up and rear-ended my car!"
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  12th April 2005
After Terry had good sex at a hot chap's home, the chap's wife(!) turned up and rear-ended Terry's car car! Should Terry keep seeing him?


 "My pic makes new internet contacts disappear"
Posted in: Ask Our Expert  1st April 2005
Howie relies on the internet to contact new gay friends but finds that as soon as he sends his photo, which they request, his new friends disappear.